Happy Women’s Day..R U Sure !!

Posted on Mar 8 2014 - 4:00pm by poonam

Happy Women’s Day..R U Sure !!

I know the title of my post would have raised many questions in your mind.. what wrong with this girl :P! But hang on ladiess I have a concern…

Happy women day

Before getting to the issue.. I would like to say that I feel very strongly about being a women and feel proud to be one! I am not one who just goes with the wind and accepts whatever comes to my way but would better stand up for my rights and ask for better if I deserve! I may be a little sober for first few times but I have a limit to my patience and after that I burst out like hot lava.. :-X

I had a normal day with all the lovely messages from beautiful ladies in my life, feeling empowered, happy and content till I run into an argument.. why is she “Malaika Arora Khan” and not “Malaika Khan” !! Why is it a question at all.. do we ever ask this to a boy who get married to girl with different surname.. why is it considered compulsory for girls to change their surname.

I feel it is our identity and girl should not leave it post – marriage, we already did much sacrifice by leaving our parents , our friends and our home and adjusting to new place and family .. something guys should also do other than sharing their room! 

I apologize if I sound too harsh but I am not in a mood to be polite.. errggghhh!! Please correct me if I am wrong..

Today Question: Why should girls are supposed to change their Surname after Marriage.. I think why we should we change our identity !!  What are your thoughts on this ladies..

8 Comments so far. Feel free to join this conversation.

  1. SwatiMarch 9, 2014 at 1:05 AM - Reply

    We do compromise on a lot of things. Changing the surname should be left to the girl. It’s her name afterall. If she wants to change then yeah sure, but she has a right to keep her own surname too without being judged by others!
    You make sense Poonam !

  2. MayuriMarch 9, 2014 at 3:45 AM - Reply

    I totally agree! we already have to leave our parents’ house why should we give up the last name we got from them.!

  3. Preeti KaurMarch 9, 2014 at 5:10 AM - Reply

    Totally agree with you! Its time we stand up for ourselves

    • poonamMarch 9, 2014 at 6:05 PM - Reply

      Yes Preeti.. we should.. otherwise our daughters have to go through the same..
      Its time to bring the Change.. 🙂

  4. ArzooMarch 9, 2014 at 10:19 AM - Reply

    I totally agree with you, I too was thinking yesterday itself, it’s just a coincidence that I would keep my surname in my name after my marriage also, it’s our right and our way, no one should force us to change our surname be it husband itself. Happy women’s day dear 😀

  5. laksMarch 9, 2014 at 12:39 PM - Reply

    In south India we add our fathers name to our surname and after marriage it’s changed to husband’s name. I still have no idea why :/

  6. MakeupmirrornmeMarch 10, 2014 at 12:30 AM - Reply

    No babe you are not at all wrong… I totally agree with you. It’s only marriage no punar janam you see 😉

  7. ManishaMarch 10, 2014 at 7:19 AM - Reply

    Happy Belated Woman’s Day. Agree with the points you stated.

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