Where, When and Why did I went missing..!! ??

Posted on Jul 1 2015 - 3:24pm by poonam

Where, When and Why did I went missing..!! ??

Hello Everyone,

After a gap of around 2 months I am happy to be back at my favorite place. If any of you noticed my absence and was wondering where this gurl has gone..here is my story!!

Baby girl on laptop

I am not sure where to start from but will start with the “Good news” .. Yours truly is blessed with a Baby Boy last month.. :). However, the sequence of events that occurred after that didn’t let me enjoy and share my happiness. No, it was not the usual mother duties and newly motherhood issues that kept me occupied, it was something more serious..

Blessed with a baby Boy

Firstly, I was expecting a normal delivery, as I am super scared of injections and getting operated for “Cesarean” gave me jitters but HE has his own plan. My baby was a Breech (his head was up) and doctor suggested to go for a Cesarean for baby’s and my safety. I can’t sleep that whole night and was nervous about the day and life after .. how will manage with the kid and the responsibilities that will come plus the trauma of getting operated was terrible.

Somehow, I survived the operation but things were not the same as expected. Few moments after birth my baby was detected with a life threatening anomalies namely Trachea-Esophagal Fistula with Esophagal Astresia (TEF-EA) with long gap of 3 cm in layman language it can be termed as incomplete food pipe which needs to be corrected on immediate basis so baby got operated on 2nd day of his life.

He was hospitalized since the he was born and it took him 6 weeks to heal completely from that operation and come home. It was so relieving that he can finally have feeds from his mouth as before that he was on tube feeds where a pipe was inserted from his nose till stomach which was very painful and irritating to the baby. Though, things are getting better now but it will take sometime for my life to come on track.

He is keeping me occupied all the day and night but I will try to be back soon and post occasionally if not regularly. I forgot to mention that my system has also crashed the day he was born.. 🙁 and as usual i haven’t kept any backup of all the images and other data related to blog. If you have any idea how could I retrieve my data from hard disk please helpp!!

PS: I had scheduled posts for almost a month and was planning to be active in breaks so that my blog never misses me but baby didn’t let this happen.

It’s “Doctors Day” today, so i would like to thank my baby’s surgeon for saving his life. May all the doctors and Sisters stay blessed who do an amazing job by saving people’s lives.. !!

This post only took me 3 days to finish up! and here its time for him to wake up again… so before I sign off I would like to thank each and everyone of you who messaged me and asked for my where about and sent their best wishes for me and my baby. Also, to all my lovely readers who visited my blog and commented on the posts. A big virtual hug to all of you.. Loads of love <3 <3

Bye byee.. See you soon!! 😀 :-

40 Comments so far. Feel free to join this conversation.

  1. crazyforcosmeticsJuly 1, 2015 at 3:33 PM - Reply

    Hey Poonam.. Good to see you back.. I know what you have gone through this one month. Official Congratulations to you & Hubby !! Loads to Love to you and the little one 🙂

    • poonamJuly 2, 2015 at 4:53 PM - Reply

      Thanks dear .. <3 your well wishes helped him recover soon!! 🙂

  2. SwathiJuly 1, 2015 at 3:35 PM - Reply

    A big congratulations and a big hug for you and your baby. I am glad that everything is allright 🙂 Stay blessed and happy. XO 🙂

    • poonamJuly 2, 2015 at 4:54 PM - Reply

      Thanks Swati.. hugs back.. <3 :-*

  3. shyluJuly 1, 2015 at 3:40 PM - Reply

    Take care and wishes for the little fellaw!

  4. MilyJuly 1, 2015 at 3:57 PM - Reply

    Heyyy…awesome to hear the news…all wishes to the baby and you!

  5. ravneetJuly 1, 2015 at 4:16 PM - Reply

    First of all congratulations to you. Poonam I can understand what you would have been through to see your son in pain. my son puked his feed on 10th day and I couldn’t control my tears and for you seeing the little one operated would have been so painful.
    I just pray that he gets fit and healthy soon and you share your pics with him.
    Love to the little one.

  6. Nichelle@OnlineMakeupAcademyJuly 1, 2015 at 4:26 PM - Reply

    So sorry to hear that you need to go through all those. But, a huge congratulations for a safe delivery and your baby boy. So excited to read more posts about your motherhood and beauty tips. Stay happy and blessed. 🙂

  7. PreethaJuly 1, 2015 at 5:43 PM - Reply

    Congrats my love..ur boy is going to b fine very soon..it wil take time for u to b like before but m sure things wil settle down soon..am very happy fr u n all I wud say is ur son is very lucky..mwah to both of u

  8. Shilpa ShettyJuly 1, 2015 at 6:18 PM - Reply

    Congratulations Poonam.. I wish him healthy life.. Dont worry,.. Everything will be fine,.. Take care,…

  9. Sandhya jainJuly 1, 2015 at 6:51 PM - Reply

    Muaahhh…finally piku is Home…Dats all is needed for now…enuf for now. May u b blessed sis..

  10. Shailja@BeABrideEverydayJuly 1, 2015 at 6:53 PM - Reply

    Heartiest congratulations Poonam, I won’t say I can feel your pain but yes you are a tough girl, who can conquer all the difficulities. Stay put and I am sure you would able manage everything. God bless the little one with good health and immense happiness. And yeah, there is no solution to system crashing. I have gone through it last month and was unable to retrieve the data. But still you can send someone to Nehre place to see if they give you a data recovery option.

    Stay happy, stay pretty !! God bless

  11. arzooJuly 1, 2015 at 9:37 PM - Reply

    I was just wondering and looking at your profile to where you went and if only I’m the one who can’t see your updates, checked and found nothing, thought what would hv happened that you hv disappeared! But I’m so so happy that it was actually a good news and your baby is doing good now, take good care of him, I know what you must hv gone through seeing your baby hospitalized for 6 weeks but glad to hear that he’s doing good now. Many many congrats Poo, God bless the lil one and stay happy 🙂

  12. PreethyJuly 1, 2015 at 9:53 PM - Reply

    Hi Poonam, Congrats and wishing both you and your baby good recovery both emotionally & physically. May God shower his abundant blessing on both of you

  13. Makeup DiscourseJuly 2, 2015 at 2:23 AM - Reply

    Oh My Cuteness!
    Congratulations! 🙂 God bless him.

  14. Ghazala NaseemJuly 2, 2015 at 11:24 AM - Reply

    Congratulations for the new born baby.
    Being a mother I Can understand your pain , How a mother feels when the baby is not well .
    Its good that he is fine , and will be always.
    Cheers and be Happy , Enjoy your Lil ones activity.
    With love and Blessings .

  15. MeghaJuly 2, 2015 at 12:02 PM - Reply

    Congrats Poo. I am so happy for you. My good wishes are with your baby 🙂

  16. sindhuJuly 2, 2015 at 1:55 PM - Reply

    Congrats Poonam… wishing u n ur son a speedy recovery 🙂

  17. Marriage compatibility testJuly 2, 2015 at 4:45 PM - Reply

    Wow..!! Heartly congratulations to you. God bless you and your son. Wish you a healthy life with your son. Tack care and keep smiling…!! 🙂

  18. LanaJuly 2, 2015 at 6:22 PM - Reply

    Congrats Poonam! The operation you described sounded so scary, I’m glad to hear that both of you are safe and well. Best of luck for motherhood !

  19. Natasha (Nats)July 2, 2015 at 6:31 PM - Reply

    I already knew why u were absent bt m very ecstatic to know that your baby is now healthy.. Hearty Congratulations to you and ur family.. ur baby is the first priority blogging can always come later.. take cr of urself and ur baby ♥

  20. AgnibanyaJuly 2, 2015 at 10:38 PM - Reply

    Congrats Poonam, I kinda had an idea this was coming ..Instinct 😉
    I can’t even imagine what an ordeal it might have been but I’m just glad to know that both of you are doing good now…Loads of love and hugs to you two 🙂

  21. Niesha (Indian Beauty Forever)July 3, 2015 at 12:01 AM - Reply

    Many Congratulations Poo. 🙂 I am in MIA mode too but it’s just that I somehow stumbled on your blog today and read this. I am so happy for you dear. Love to the baby. <3 <3 <3

  22. Fatima NayaniJuly 3, 2015 at 2:37 AM - Reply

    Many many congratulations Poonam! Happy to know that everything is fine now. God bless you and your baby.

  23. rachnaJuly 3, 2015 at 3:35 AM - Reply

    good to know ur little one is doing good now…wish him good health and lots of love and blessing to both of u!

  24. JyotiJuly 3, 2015 at 11:24 AM - Reply

    Heartiest congratulations Poonam! For the baby boy and for the fact that he is recovering well. 🙂 I am sure it was tough, but now you will treasure him more. I will keep you both in my prayer. lots of love. <3

  25. nausheenJuly 4, 2015 at 1:06 AM - Reply

    Congratulations hun, yeah i missed you dear..no post on blog made me think that where the hell are you:D. Sad to hear that you went through so much but glad to hear that you and a little one survived. May god bless you both and give healthy and beautiful life ahead.
    Take care n keep blogging 🙂

    • poonamJuly 14, 2015 at 8:17 PM - Reply

      Thanks a tonn Nausheen.. feeling blessed to be surrounded by you people!!
      Thanks again for your lovely wishes

  26. ChicPeachyPinkJuly 4, 2015 at 2:48 PM - Reply

    Congrats Poonam 🙂 glad that you are back and that you and your baby are safe xx

    • poonamJuly 14, 2015 at 8:14 PM - Reply

      Thanks sweetie.,. <3

  27. Astha MbfJuly 5, 2015 at 11:45 AM - Reply

    Relieved to know that the baby is doing fine now. Congratulations and All the best 🙂

    • poonamJuly 14, 2015 at 8:13 PM - Reply

      Thanks for your lovely wishes dear <3

  28. Nandini SinghJuly 6, 2015 at 2:33 PM - Reply

    Congratulations di…Hope our boy recovers soon 🙂 Take care of yours and the baby

    • poonamJuly 14, 2015 at 8:12 PM - Reply

      Thanks Nandini.. I am sure your wishes will help him in his recovery!! <3

  29. Richa SaxenaJuly 10, 2015 at 12:20 PM - Reply

    A hearty congratulations to you dear! I was wondering where you were….You take care of ureself Nd the baby….God bless you both! 🙂

    • poonamJuly 14, 2015 at 8:11 PM - Reply

      Thanks a bunch richa.. <3 It feels good if you are being missed.. <3 love you!!

  30. purvaJuly 13, 2015 at 11:12 PM - Reply

    Hey congratulations poo..Would love to see the pics of your baby 🙂

    • poonamJuly 14, 2015 at 8:11 PM - Reply

      Hey Purva.. I would have loved to share but you know after all this.. i am not allowed to post it here or on any of the social media.!!

  31. anubhutiJanuary 2, 2016 at 9:44 PM - Reply

    I hope everything is fine…he is a healthy boy now and i wish him and you all the good health and happiness…

    • poonamJanuary 3, 2016 at 1:32 AM - Reply

      yes dear.. thanks for your warm wishes.. he is doing good now 🙂

      And I also wish you and your family a wonderful 2016 <3

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